Spread the word. Let everyone you know how many of us there are and how much we need their help. Don’t be shy. When someone says, “Let me know if you need anything.” Give them something to do.
Here are some suggestions:
Visit once or twice a month for thirty minutes so I can shower and rest for a few minutes.
Call when you are going to the grocery store and ask if we need anything.
Cut the grass or rake the leaves in my yard.
Once a month provide a meal so I don’t nave to cook.
Take my car to be inspected or pick up prescriptions at the pharmacy.
Be my friend when I need to vent and please don’t judge me when I am at my most vulnerable. This is harder than I ever imagined and I am doing the best I can.
What would you add to the list above? What will you say when well meaning people say, “Let me know if you need anything?”